Sometimes I feel nature has deposited some in born desire that men cannot change. This is very common when it comes to feelings, desires and taste. For example, some men just love chubby ladies, others slim ladies and if by fate the person who loves chubby ladies end up marrying a slim lady he seems to be un satisfied.
Well, Before the base of my discussion and story is misunderstood, I will like to cut to the chase.
My name is Ben and I am into older ladies, I have fought the feeling of liking ladies that are at least five years older than I am, but nature seems to be winning always.
This feeling makes me feel odd especially in the midst of my peers because it’s just me that has it. Other’s would see a young pretty lady pass by and then shower her with words of flatter but I just stand there saying to myself “oh if she was a little bit older than me I would have liked her” weddings are great, they are usually filled with people looking very good sometimes at their peak.
But when the male crowd looks at young ladies in admiration and even lust after them, mine would be with the older ladies, I would look at how God blessed their bodies with wonderful contours and how they could be all my heart yearns for, but then a voice would whisper to me and say “she is 7 years older than you”.
I usually day dream of how I approached a lady in her mid-thirties with the legendary story of how I feel about her and how my heart craves for her love and they would tell me of how they feel the same way about me, but in the real world its different, I either get insulted or rejected, sometimes the gossips of my story gets back to me.
I would often hear some people say, hey Ben I heard something o…… what? Hmmm they said you went and approached aunty Sarah and she was like you no dey look face go find your mate. That’s when I’ll begin to regretted why I met her in the first place or why ladies can’t keep their mouth shut when been approached.
I think I am writing this because I don’t know if I need help, the prejudice in the society is choking me. So if you have similar desires towards older ladies let me know how you dealt with it, coz I don’t want to marry a young lady and feel unsatisfied or still look out to the older ladies.
– Amazing Toluwa-